Share Your World – 4 April 2022

Here are my answers to this week’s Share Your World from Sparks

Are you more productive at night or in the morning? Do you think it’s possible to change and get used to another schedule?

Throughout my adult working life, I was a morning person. I had no trouble going to sleep early and waking up early. I was that irritating person that greeted her less enthusiastic colleagues chirpily while pouring a cup of coffee before the morning staff meeting. (Coffee is an essential food for teachers, chirpy or not!)

On holiday in game reserves, it is essential to be out at dawn. No problem – I would rally my sleepy travelling companions and make sure we were out there bright and early.

Now that I am retired, things are a little different! I can still rise early if I have to but these days I go to sleep later and rise later too. I am still more productive in the morning but I can certainly do stuff at night too.

Can people change from early birds to night owls? – Yes, I think so. Can night owls change into early birds? I can’t see any of the night owls of my acquaintance ever changing into early birds. If they couldn’t during their working lives, why should they try now?

What’s the biggest vehicle you’ve driven?  If you don’t drive, what’s the biggest vehicle you’ve ridden in? 

The biggest motorcar I ever drove was a Volkswagen Caravelle and I loved it. We sold it when we moved to Struisbaai in 2015. Now I hardly drive at all. The Earl drives a Ford Everest and I do drive it on occasion but it is not as easy to drive as the Caravelle.

What wonderful memories we made during the ten years we owned that amazing vehicle. I used it to transport kids to school outings and sports matches etc. We could pile kids, dogs and luggage in and still travel in comfort and above all it was a superb safari vehicle. However, there was many a time that I was mistaken for a minibus taxi! It was sad to see the disappointed faces of potential passengers trying to climb aboard while I explained that I was not able to transport them to their destination.

2005 – Me at the wheel of our brand new Volkswagen Caravelle – On our way to Kgalagadi

What songs would be played on a loop in hell?  (Suspend disbelief for this one, it’s cool not to believe in Hell, but let’s use our imaginations to answer.  Of course one can always skip the questions they find odd too.  And yes, I took into account that individual tastes will influence individual choices.)

Chris de Burgh’s Spanish Train comes to mind.

(Deep and chewy philosophical question):     What does it mean to be a person?  What constitutes “personhood?” (there may be some diverse opinions, but we’re all mature adults in here, so be respectful of others please).

To be a person you have to have self-awareness, reason, morality and a sense of responsibility toward others. You need to know the difference between good and evil. There is good and evil in us all but some of us are human and others are monsters.

A human will have a conscience, feel remorse and work to improve him or herself.

The problem with people is that they are also “sheeple.” Monsters will take advantage of them.

A monster has no morals, no conscience and feels no regret for doing harm to others. Monsters in History are Hitler, Idi Amin, Sadham Hussein and the like. Rapists and sadists are monsters. Anybody who needs to have power over others is a monster and does not deserve to be called nor treated like a person. Something in their DNA is wrong so they are therefore not to be considered a person.

How evil was this guy and what does it say about gullible people?


How were your spirits (mood) over the past week? 

I have been in good spirits. These are the small things that made me happy.

Our gardener did a wonderful job dividing and transplanting the clivias that were crowding other plants in one of our beds. He even created a lovely brick border without being asked. We are just so blessed.

The Earl’s protégé, Sam, who is spending a few days at Breede River surprised us by popping over for the afternoon. It’s an hour and a half drive! We had a lovely lunch together.

I got new linen for two bedrooms and some new towels too – this is because we now have our house with a holiday letting agent and we needed to upgrade a bit. Good news – we have tenants for Easter!

The bananas were going off so I made banana bread with almond flour and it was delicious!

Friends from Cape Town are moving permanently to Struisbaai and were here getting their new home ready for the final move. It was so good to see them.

I could go on as it is the small things that make me happy.

2 thoughts on “Share Your World – 4 April 2022

  1. Mary Craig

    How lucky we are that small things make us grateful. Most people only want big cars, big houses and are not satisfied to just live. We are grateful for good friends, good laughs and lots of fun. So yes we can’t complain….Enjoy your Easter away…

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  2. Melanie B Cee

    Thanks Helen for that lovely Share Your World! I’m very happy that you’re having such a good stretch of luck and contentment. But your attitude overall is one of the more sunny ones in Blogville! 💟 I’d never heard of Chris Burgh, I’ll have to look that up! That Adolph Hitler quote was chllling. Because in a sense he’s come back over here. The Orange Menace was his host (I say that tongue in cheek a bit) and that Orange Horror isn’t done with America either. It’s scary and I do believe that quote was one ol’ Donald lived by too. Scary times to live in over here. That’s another reason I love reading the responses from other countries. There isn’t a world black out of despair and pain and you’ve proven that to me today. Thank you so much! Have a great week!

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